So, I’m a Brene Brown junkie, so when I see her talking on something, I listen.
The Beautiful Writers podcast has some great guest on it, so even though the vibe doesn’t 100% work for me, I have a couple of episodes I like–and this conversation is a great balance of Brene’s perspective on creativity and being real about making stuff.
Ironically, the strength of this conversation is that it’s not just Brene talking. And it’s about the way these three are IN their practice of writing as professionals.
Beautiful Writers – Daring to Create Greatly with Brene Brown
Warning: it involves a tale of remaindering. It isn’t pretty. Everyone survives.
Apparently I am an American after all.
When asked, at the beginning of this episode, “Are there problems that shouldn’t be solved?” I had a visceral reaction to the idea of leaving something unfixed.
But that emotional reaction is actually the meat of what this episode of the incredible Invisibilia show is about.
The American “We Can Fix It!” attitude has given rise to our empire’s greatest accomplishments–and some of our worst flaws.
We’ve created an infrastructure for easy transport of goods over long distances, which made the US a world power. It also made it easier for us to unscrupulously take too much from the environment, on our own land and on others’. It made productivity seem only held back by human need for rest.
(Which we solved by creating graveyard shifts, and overtime. Not necessarily for the better.)
This episode starts with a jarring idea: that maybe people are not meant to be fixed.
Can this be true?
Listen here. And let me know what you end up thinking–because by the end of it *I* had a completely different idea of problems and solutions in mental health, as well as the American Fix-It impulse.
One of the most fascinating things about people is how they can know things (either personally or collectively) that they completely ignore.
This isn’t the first episode of Malcolm Gladwell’s Revisionist History (and they’re all worth listening to) but this one melds the kind of light trivia (ways to shoot penalties in basketball) with bigger ideas about humanity.
Check out The Big Man Can’t Shoot either here at the podcast website, or on iTunes.
This episode has stuck with me–since my brother plays hockey, the sports connections resurface. Really, though, my paradigm shifted enough I don’t need to hear the word “draft” (listen and you’ll get why) to think about the terrifying revelation in this podcast.
Which is that even if people know, even if they EXPERIENCE better, they will go back to the old but less uncomfortable ways.
It’s terrifying, because we’ve probably done it. And this is why we need to get a group of people around us who want to make the same changes–and up our resilience or threshold for standing out.
If this podcast tickled your brain (or shifted your whole world), the rest of the Revisionist History episodes will, too. I’ll be continuing to highlight my favorites in this series!
Boundaries are tough. They’re also vital. Brene Brown defines vulnerability as connection and intimacy within boundaries. Without boundaries, sharing things personal and vulnerable for you is reckless–and does not build connection.
I’ve been thinking about the importance of modeling boundaries. If I won’t say no, because the people around me don’t, then how can any of us start building good fences and become good neighbors?
Modeling is also vital in creativity. That’s what it’s all about in today’s first podcast blast where I share top mind-altering podcasts I’ve loved.
I’m a relative newcomer to podcasts. Elizabeth Gilbert’s Magic Lessons are what really sold me on how much they had to offer, starting last year. So let’s launch with HER launching episode!
Episode 1: Do What Ignites Your Soul
This episode answers a writing mom’s inquiry into why she feels stuck. She knows it’s partly guilt–guilt that if she’s not 100% devoted to her children and only them, she’s taking something from them.
This is far from the truth. Moms model for kids what it is to be a person–and this includes boundaries and behaviors toward your own well-being and dreams.
Image taken from the blog of the mom in question, Erin Janda Rawling
Check it out!
Magic Lessons by Elizabeth Gilbert – Episode 1 (Season 1)